Archive for December, 2009

December 23, 2009

To embrace curiosity is to “… embrace the beauty of a journey that may never arrive at an absolute answer.”

Doesn’t that make you all warm and fuzzy inside?  These are the words of blogging expert Seth Godin in a video on the subject of curiosity.   Kyle Bylin, Associate Editor for hypebot.com, referenced this video in an article on the site.  In the article, Bylin discusses the reason he writes for this blog about the music technology industry, which was first started about five years ago by Bruce Houghton, whose primary focus was to help the clients at his agency keep up with the changes that were occurring in entertainment, information, and technology.  Bylin has explained his reason for contributing to the now-successful blog as simply curiosity and wanting to share his findings with others.  And let me tell you, my readers – there is no other more effective means of motivation than curiosity!  We’ve all heard such clichés as “life is a journey, not a destination”, and we know that if one is really going to try something new or make a change, one should “do it for yourself”.  These are clichés for a reason – because they’re true.

The journey is what will make us wiser and more learned.  The journey, in my eyes, never ends; and if, and only if, you embrace curiosity, you will find yourself ever-evolving.

It’s difficult to remember that sometimes.  I know I am constantly working towards that next step, and I’m always saying “I want to be there.  If I can just get there, I’ll be happy.”  But we all know that once I get “there”, I will have created another goal to reach.  That’s great.  Keep making goals and, preferably for you, achieving those goals.  Just remember – that “stuff” you are going through along the way – is really the meat and potatoes of life.

December 21, 2009

NaNoWriMo – It will make you do CRAZY things!

I have a confession to make – I’m living a double life.  Ok, so maybe not two lives entirely, but I do live a “normal”, in the flesh life, where my daily activities consist of working, going to the gym, spending time with my family and friends, etc., and then I spend hours of my days on the “Information Superhighway” – the alternative universe that exists only virtually but often intertwines with my physical life.  These days, in order to promote your personal brand, you have to exist at least somewhat in the virtual space that we call the Internet – be it through social networking sites, in writing a blog, etc.  In my virtual quests, I stumbled across National Novel Writing Month, and I got inspired!

The History

NaNoWriMo began in 1999 with freelance writer Chris Baty and 20 other amateur novelists.  Their goal was not to produce profound and potential award-winning novels, but just to create for the hell of creating.  They wanted to “make some noise”, and they thought this would be a fun way to do that.  So, each writer sought to write 50,000 words in the month of July, and that was the only goal.

What the heck IS NaNoWriMo?

Today NaNoWriMo works like this:  You can sign up on the website (if you’d like), which is free and gives you access to tips and tools to help get your word count up, forums and support groups where you can talk to other participants about their progress, etc.  Each writer attempts to write 50,000 words (about 175 pages) in the month of November (30 days).  The focus is solely on quantity, not writing a perfect manuscript.  You can research, brainstorm, and outline your novel beforehand, but you must not begin forming full sentences until November 1.  If you have completed the 50,000 words by midnight on November 30, you can upload your novel to the NaNoWriMo website, where the word count will be verified.  If you have been verified as completing 50,000 words, The Office of Letters and Light (who runs NaNoWriMo) will send you a fun, downloadable certificate of completion so you can brag to all your nerdy friends about your accomplishment.

Sounds good to me! But why?

This focus on quantity, not quality, is what really allows writers to be successful with NaNoWriMo.  A lot of people – especially writers – are pretty darn hard on ourselves.  And let’s be honest – life is short, time is fleeting, and making the most of our time is the only way to get it all in before we croak.  So, whether you end up completing all 50,000 words in 30 days or not, you’ve at least relieved some of the pressure that comes along with the idea of writing a novel, and a good one at that.

Why the heck do you care?

I’m telling you about NaNoWriMo, 1) so that maybe some of you will try it one day and end up publishing a best-seller that I, then, can enjoy; and 2) because I’m workin’ on a little rendition of NaNoWriMo myself.  No, I’m not a novelist, in addition to my extremely thought-provoking, witty, and charming non-fiction blog articling (ok, quit the snickering).  THIS – these blog articles are my NaNoWriMo.  Since I will not be engaging in character development (except maybe my own) or plot development, it is a little more difficult to write a whopping 50,000 words; not to mention I’m big on success and reaching my goals, and frankly, I have a feeling I would not reach that goal in just 30 days.

So I’m writing 20,000 words for my first NaNoWriMo in the form of blog articles.  I’ll be telling you all about what I think about the world and it’s workings, in particular arts, culture, and entertainment of all sorts.  I will let you know how I feel as I write 1,000 words, give-or-take, each day in November.  Aren’t you excited?!

December 11, 2009

Technology Killed the Language Lover

In my opinion, most all change, evolution, and revolution in our world boils down to a few basic ideas, or catalysts. One of these catalysts for change (or lack thereof) is technology.  Technology, and the rate at which we adopt new technology into our lives, is rooted in so many of our social patterns and the lifestyles we live.

As I’ve mentioned before, I am a true lover of language.  Words are so powerful and allow us to be who we want to be. Words teach us, allow us to escape, and make us wise.  With words, almost anything is possible.

With regards to technology, language is evolving at a faster rate than ever before.  Through texting, tweeting, blogging, and more, we are able to play with words, create new ones, and easily share them with others.  The rate at which we are able to share our words is exciting and promising; on the other hand, we abuse language by shortening words, using slang, and becoming less and less formal.  We have all sent a text or two using gotcha, I’ma, ur, wanna, and the list goes on.  I think (you asked for my opinion, right?) these shortened phrases are fine in moderation, but when they are turning up in articles and in children’s school papers, we have a problem.  So many words in the English language have mutated or completely disappeared over centuries.  Novel words are created, such as “blog” and “tweet”, which are not yet even recognized by my Microsoft Word 2000.

Dont’cha Wanna Know Where I Got This Idea?

There is an interesting article in the Fall 2009 edition of GRAMMYŽ, an online publication for members of the National Association of Recording Arts and Sciences (synonymous with the Grammys).  The article discusses the idea of bands using longer and longer names to portray a statement.  Anna Barie of the band These Are Powers says of statement bands, “There are different ways that people are communicating now – online and texting and ‘tweeting’.  So the language is getting played with more, and that gets reflected in band names.”  And, while the ways in which people are communicating now is certainly reflected in band names like They Might Be Giants and I Love You But I’ve Chosen Darkness, technology affects language in all avenues.

December 11, 2009

Showing Up for Life is Half the Battle

My last blog brings up a larger, more important issue.  Yes, one should always be punctual in life, but more importantly, you have to show up for life.  Do you know anyone who always talks about the things they’re going to do, what or who they want to be one day, but never actually accomplishes these things?  How about someone who you invite to events or to hang out and their response is something like “oh, yeah, uh, I’ll get back to you on that.  I might be able to go, I’m not sure” and then they never show?  We ALL know someone like this, and you know what I have to say to those of you out there (I bet one or two of my readers is this way – but not you, right??) is show up for life.

In order to achieve the success you talk and dream about so much, you must be present.  This means attending those events you’ve replied “maybe” to, network, be reliable.  The people in my life that I can call when I need something and that I can count on, are those people who show up for life.  It’s difficult to find people to trust with a task and know that he or she will follow through to make sure it is done well.  And, while those people are difficult to find in the world, I seek them out, keep them close, and let them know that I will show up for them too.

So if you think you may be one of the people I’m talking about, have no fear.  You can start acting now, start doing now.  Just as I made a guarantee to you in my last post, I will offer the same here.  If you begin showing up for life and following through on all the plans you’ve pushed to the side in the past, I guarantee that you will start seeing positive returns quickly.

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December 11, 2009

If you’re not 5 minutes early, you’re late.

Father Time

I haven’t gone without a watch (accept accidentally leaving it at home) since, oh, I don’t know.  Since I could read time.  There’s a reason for that.  I will always wear a watch because time is our most precious commodity.  Time is fleeting; you cannot buy more or save your stash to use later when you really need it.  And the tricky thing about our buddy time is that we never actually know how much of it we have.  Sure, we can budget our time and attempt to utilize each minute in the most efficient way possible, but no one that I know can actually predict how much time any one person has on Earth.

And so, wasting time, for me, is not an option.  I continue to hone my skills in time management, and I assure you that this one skill has and continues to allow me to be successful.  Any “successful” person – in any terms really, be it money, career, happiness – has some higher level of time management skills than another person with a mediocre life.

Mature People are On Time

What others want to do with their time is their business, unless, of course, he/she is wasting my time.  Being chronically late boils down to one specific personality trait: immaturity.  To be on time is a responsibility, and one who is not responsible enough to be on time is immature.  I have a friend who is consistently 30 minutes to an hour late.  I always wonder if she is late for work, but I’m pretty sure she’s not because I know that her employer loves her.  That makes me wonder: does she feel that her employer’s time is more important or valuable than mine, or is my friend simply more concerned with being punctual to work because she wants to make a good impression on her boss and doesn’t care what my impression of her portrays.  Well let me tell you, missy – MY time is important too!

Ok, I’m really not THAT upset about it.  I’m just being dramatic.  But I will say that by respecting others’ time as you would take care of your own, you are taking personal responsibility and showing maturity.  If you are someone who is chronically late, figure out what the issue is, show up five minutes early from now on, and I guarantee you will see a return shortly.

December 2, 2009

Welcome to my Blog!

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